Friendships—those intricate little webs we weave, thinking we’re crafting something unbreakable. You spend years building these connections, brick by brick, only to find out that the whole thing was more of a house of cards than a fortress. It’s a lovely little reminder from the universe that, no matter how much you invest in someone, the whole thing can collapse faster than you can say “betrayal.”
And isn’t it always the most ridiculous things that trigger the fallout? Life’s already got you in a chokehold—bills piling up like they’re breeding in the dark, work hours stretching into oblivion, dealing with the emotional fallout of deaths in the family, and the joy of having to uproot your entire life because, surprise, you’re moving. You’re so buried under your own problems that you’ve barely got the energy to get out of bed, let alone dive headfirst into someone else’s petty squabble. So, when they start blowing up your phone, demanding you take sides in their latest drama, you do the only sane thing: you opt out. Delete the messages, announce you’re not playing referee in their childish game, and step back.
But what do you get for your trouble? A big ol’ knife in the back. Suddenly, you’ve gone from loyal friend to public enemy number one because you had the audacity not to jump into the fray. Their trust in you evaporates—poof!—all because you didn’t want to waste your last ounce of energy on something that doesn’t matter. And now, they’ve got the nerve to question your entire friendship because, apparently, you didn’t live up to their expectations of being their personal gladiator.
It’s twisted, isn’t it? All those years, all those memories, and it all comes crashing down because you refused to indulge in a little pointless drama. Turns out, staying silent in the face of their nonsense is the biggest crime of all, and now you’re left holding the pieces, feeling like the bad guy in a story you never asked to be part of. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but it’s a perfect reminder of just how fragile these so-called bonds can be.
So, what’s the moral of this lovely little tale? Choose your friends like you’d choose a lifeboat—something sturdy that won’t spring a leak at the first sign of trouble. Don’t just look at the good times—anyone can be a friend when the sun’s shining. Pay attention to the cracks, the little moments where things don’t quite add up. Notice how they react when you’re not at your best, when life’s kicked you down and you’re not exactly the knight in shining armor they’re used to.
Watch how they handle disagreements, especially when they’re the ones getting riled up. Do they expect you to jump in and fight their battles for them? Do they turn on you the second you don’t? Because if they do, you’re not dealing with a friend; you’re dealing with someone who’s just using you as a prop in their own little play. And let’s be honest, who needs that?
And while we’re at it, let’s talk about avoiding those psychic vampires—you know the type. The ones who drain the life out of you, suck away your energy, and leave you feeling like you’ve just run a marathon in quicksand. These are the folks who never have enough, who constantly need your validation, your support, your attention, and they’ll take it all without giving a damn thing back. They’re masters at turning every interaction into a one-way street, and before you know it, you’re left depleted, wondering why you ever thought this person was worth your time.
So how do you survive the loss of a friendship? First, recognize that some friendships have an expiration date, and it’s okay to let them go. Don’t cling to something that’s already falling apart—it’s not worth the emotional drain. Next, take a step back and reflect on what you’ve learned. Every failed friendship has a lesson buried in the rubble, so dig it out and use it to build stronger, healthier connections in the future. And finally, surround yourself with people who genuinely have your back, not just when it’s convenient for them, but when you’re at your lowest. These are the people who will help you rise again, not the ones who’ll kick you while you’re down.
The truth is, a lot of friendships are built on sand, not stone. They’re fine when the weather’s nice, but the second a storm hits, you see how flimsy they really are. So, don’t throw your lot in with someone who’s only there for the sunshine. Keep an eye out for the red flags—the moments that show you exactly who you’re dealing with. And most importantly, steer clear of those energy-sucking psychic vampires who’ll drain you dry and move on to the next victim without a second thought. Because in the end, it’s better to have a handful of real, solid connections than to be surrounded by a bunch of fair-weather friends who’ll vanish the second the going gets tough.
And that, my friends, is the bitter truth.
Darth Grumps
Grumps is the name most folks recognize him by on TikTok, Discord, and various other corners of the internet. He’s the one writing and talking about how Satanism weaves into the everyday grind, working to clear up the usual misconceptions people have about the religion. Through his own unique lens, he offers insights and a slice of Satanic wisdom that only he can provide.
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